Your first wedding dress fitting is a monumental moment in your wedding journey, but it can also feel a bit daunting. Here’s how to make it smooth and stress-free.

Wear the Right Underwear

Wear the undergarments you plan to wear on your wedding day to get an accurate fit. This includes your bra, shapewear, and any other supportive garments that will affect how your dress sits. Not quite sure what to wear? Your seamstress can make recommendations specific to your gown and desired silhouette.

Bring Your Wedding Day Shoes

Why is this important? Simple—your shoes impact the length of your gown. Whether you’re wearing stilettos or ballet flats, having the actual shoes ensures your hem is adjusted to perfection.

Keep an Open Mind

Your gown will look different at each of your fittings and each appointment gets you closer to the beautiful end result. Be sure to listen to your tailor’s recommendations—they’ve worked with hundreds of dresses and know what tweaks will enhance the fit and comfort while making sure you have proper support as well.

Limit Your Entourage

It can be tempting to bring everyone to your fittings, but too many opinions can be overwhelming. Bringing just one or two trusted people can make the experience more focused and enjoyable.

Speak Up About Comfort

If anything feels off—whether it’s too tight, too loose, or uncomfortable in any way—don’t hesitate to speak up. The fitting is the time to address any concerns, not later when alterations become more complicated.

With these tips in mind, you’ll walk into your first fitting confident and ready to embrace your dream dress!

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Hi, I’m Melissa, the sassy sewing and wedding pro you didn’t know you needed in your life. 

I’m the owner of deMelis Atelier, a top ranked alterations studio located in Connecticut, and the founder of Stitched Collective, a community for sewing professionals. I’m a master seamstress and wedding dress educator as well as an industry leader and trainer… and a lover of spicy mango margaritas.

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