Hosts: Melissa Lynn Oddo (deMelis Atelier & Stitched Collective) Matthew Banever (Bards Clothing)

Summary:

Today we’re joined by the incredible Shelley Armatino of Married by Shelley, an officiant with a unique ability to connect people through their stories. Shelley shares with us how she turned her passion for storytelling and connecting with couples into a successful officiating business. We dive into the intricacies of weddings, how she became a go-to person for all things officiant-related, and what keeps her motivated to make every ceremony personal and meaningful. Join us as we uncover how Shelley brings love stories to life!

PHOTO: @ashleyabelphotography

Outfits:

Shelly –

• Shirt – TJ Maxx
• Jeans – Citizens of Humanity from Swish, Guilford
• Shoes – Valentino Garavani
• Earrings/ Necklace – Libero Jewelers, North Haven
• Bracelet – Swish

Melissa – 

• Dress – Vintage Eva Gabor Look, by Estevez
• Shoes – Solei Sea
• Jewelry – Grandmothers

Matt – 

• Sack coat – Bards
• Denim Shirt – Bards
• Jeans – Imogene & Willie
• Socks – United Way
• Shoes – Mezlan

Key Topics Discussed:

• Shelley’s journey into officiating and how her love for storytelling inspired her.
• The importance of sonder and connecting complex human experiences during weddings.
• How Shelley became the resource for couples and vendors alike by always knowing the right people and places.
• The balance between introversion and extroversion in her role and how she navigates her way through social situations.
• The importance of community and support within the wedding industry.

Takeaways:

• Storytelling is at the heart of every great wedding ceremony, and Shelley’s expertise lies in connecting people on a deeper level.
• Don’t be afraid to push past your comfort zone to achieve your dreams — even if you’re introverted.
• Finding what you love to do can change everything, even if it takes a while to get there.
• Shelley’s advice for officiants: listen deeply, understand the couple’s journey, and bring everyone together through their story.

Links:

• Married by Shelly – Connecticut Wedding Officiant & Marriage Coach, customized wedding ceremonies and vow renewals honoring all faiths, and cultural traditions, LGBTQ friendly.
• Ever after Ceremonies – Kathy Vass – I serve as your personal storyteller, standing with you, as the next chapter of your life begins in M​arriage.
• Swish – A women’s boutique located on the Guilford green
• Citizens of Humanity – Shop premium denim, born in California, with authentic fabrication and an impeccable fit. Find your perfect pair from a variety of styles, colors, washes, fabrics and lengths.
• Valentino Garavani – Browse Iconic Designs & the Latest Collection
• Libero Jewelers – Explore engagement & wedding rings, timepieces, repair services, or make your own design with us! 
• Solei Sea – Soléi Sea sandals are stylish AND comfortable. You’ll love the padded footbeds and arch support on all our stunning styles and colorways.
• Imogene & Willie – made with love / made to last — forever on the quest to make the perfect jeans. designed in Nashville and made in the USA.
• United Way Store – United Way brings communities together to find strength and share hope. It’s the way we rally in hard times to meet people’s needs so they can rise back up and build a better future.