When planning a wedding, advice flows in from all directions. Friends and family, with the best intentions, often have a lot to say about which vendors you should hire. But here’s a little insider secret: sometimes the best recommendations don’t come from your inner circle—they come from your other vendors. Why? Because in the wedding industry, good people know good people.

Here’s why trusting your vendors’ recommendations is a game-changer:

Vendors Know What Happens Behind the Scenes

Your vendors are in the trenches of the wedding world. They’ve seen it all—from the florist who creates jaw-dropping arrangements under tight deadlines to the DJ who effortlessly keeps the dance floor alive. They know who can handle high-pressure situations with grace and who truly delivers on their promises.

Professional Relationships Matter

Vendors often recommend people they enjoy working alongside. It’s not just about talent but also about smooth collaboration. When everyone’s on the same page, your day runs like clockwork, with no egos or drama to throw things off. And trust me, that’s priceless.

They’ve Seen Each Other at Their Best—and Worst

Wedding vendors are like a backstage crew—they’re there for the wins and the stressful moments. If your photographer recommends a makeup artist, chances are they’ve seen their work stand up to long hours, emotional tears, and, yes, maybe a little wedding day chaos. Those referrals are based on real-world experience, not just a glossy Instagram feed.

Established Rapport Makes Your Day Seamless

When vendors have a history of working together, their personalities tend to jive. They know how to communicate and collaborate efficiently, which makes your day feel seamless. That florist and planner who’ve done 20 weddings together? They’re a well-oiled machine that ensures your vision comes to life without a hitch.

So, while your best friend’s advice comes from a place of love (and we know they are so excited to share how great THEIR day was with you), your vendors’ recommendations are built on expertise, experience, and an insider’s knowledge of what it takes to make a wedding truly exceptional. When you trust their suggestions, you’re not just hiring a team of professionals—you’re assembling a dream team that’s ready to bring your vision to life.

Hi, I’m Melissa, the sassy sewing and wedding pro you didn’t know you needed in your life. 

I’m the owner of deMelis Atelier, a top ranked alterations studio located in Connecticut, and the founder of Stitched Collective, a community for sewing professionals. I’m a master seamstress and wedding dress educator as well as an industry leader and trainer… and a lover of spicy mango margaritas.

I use my fashion and sewing knowledge to help brides and wedding pros alike. 

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